Husband (unfaithful) just told me he wants out.

[PeteWyo]

I think you're 100% correct in saying that the changes need to be behavioral and lasting. Unfortunately, only time and lots of work on my part is going to show that I'm undergoing these changes. I'm just cognizant of the bigger picture, which is me looking at me.

Now you are getting it. Stay strong. I love your quote, I'll add it to my list.