This plane has landed, baby!

[albamarie]

Hi Angel61,
I just read your last thread and followed you here. Your post are helping me understand a little about when they seem to be coming "home'' again there really is no guarantee.

My sitch is a little similar though were at the beginning of h talking to me and making plans for next summer. Laughing a little, joking, and even picking up some of his own likes and interests around the house.

He is still actively talking and visiting ea not sure about that yet, I'm concentrating on what I do have control over, and that's my home life with H.

What's is it that they are doing - if I can ask - when they start to peek out and ''want" you around them? I am still shocked by his gestures to sit with him, or talk about his game he's developing for when he retires?

What do you say to the person who in the same hour can say their never going to except getting old, or having this small house? How do you deal with neg. language and now the pos. if you don't mind me asking?

I don't get ILY either but he is holding me again, kisses goodbye, lots of hugs and help around the house. I sometime wonder if this is the calm before the finale. His way of making peace before ending the M all together.

I will continue to read how you handle yourself in your sitch. Yours is the first thread I've found at this stage. thanks for sharing!