So anyways, nothing happened. Shortly after my last post (the first one), I laid down on the floor for a few - collecting thoughts in general. W came down and asked if I was ok. I said no, and went on to briefly explain a work sich that has me aggravated. Surprise, things other than my M can upset me. . She then shared her stressful work day. Validate of course. I asked her if she wanted to expand upon the "pressured" statement. She said no. I left it at that; and then finally started to workout. Soon after I was done exercising, she walked by - withdrawn and didn't offer a goodnight. Oh well. Getting used to it. She did say she spoke with her sister in CA. She's pretty direct so I'm unsure of how come she's upset. Not my worry right? This sister told me that I should sit down with W, and pretty much tell her to choose OM or Me. Ultimatum. I'm not ready for that yet. I have the back up plan of leaving / "respite" as you all have put it later on this w/e.