Just a thought. Why would W not want to tell me about the questions D8 asked? Why would she "playfully" keep it a secret? Shouldn't she want to discuss what she's going to say to D8 with me first?
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
Glad you're feeling better some. For me, the "reality" of others knowing about the sich does sting some, it does ease some.
I agree with Unbidden, W is most likely in denial - perhaps justifying (in her own mind) what is going on. I can say my W has played several not so nice cards with my kids. Fortunately, like you, I have a close bond with them. They know they can tell me anything...sometimes too much.
Yeah, I suppose she was taken off guard otherwise she would have answered D8 right away. I guess she needs the time to process what she's going to say and that would explain why she wouldn't tell me about it last night. She just doesn't know what to say. All of this is mind-reading of course. I'll know soon enough, I guess.
Funny how WASs do things without really thinking it over before. Did she really think she could get away with never having to explain herself to D8?
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
Just a thought. Why would W not want to tell me about the questions D8 asked? Why would she "playfully" keep it a secret? Shouldn't she want to discuss what she's going to say to D8 with me first?
b/c your mind reading is way off? Truly, It never crossed my mind that your d's questions re to OM.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
You may be right 25. It might have to do with hamsters.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
Arsene, let us know how things went. I know the feeling when you start telling people about what's happening. When we called my mom, I felt terrible, but I was still resisting the idea for about 10 months (my H announced he wanted move out in Nov of last year.) I'm still a little bit in denial, I think. Hang in there. This is a long process. And continue trying to not mind-read too much.
Hi Arsene, I'm curious to hear how things went as well. Let us know.
Thanks for your nice words! At least I can cheer someone up without trying!
You're right about the meds. Mine did take a little while to kick in. I'm sure you will get peace of mind just knowing you're taking steps to improve your outlook.
Hope you're having a good day.
M:45/H43 T:21/M19 D:18 S:11 Bomb:8/10- I'm just not "happy" H Moves in with mom: 8/10 H Files: 3/11 Now lives with? OW/GF no clue Nothing finalized...
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
