We do the 99% business thing as well. I think its simply a matter of choosing to smile and love them even when your talking business, but your right arsene, if your smiling and trying to be nice then you tend to seem more pursuing, and if your all business then you seem cold/distant or angry. We were nothing but business for 4+ months and have had 2 semi 'us' talks in the last 3 weeks but I think it really bothered her that they went well.
Denver actually helped me an awful lot above when he told me to relax it was normal. The funny thing is i KNEW it was coming, I KNEW it was normal and I thought I was ready for it, but it still pretty well sucked, and there hasn't been anything since except business again, and actually very little of that. Stay the course gentlemen, we'll all GROW through this together.
Is everyone doing something physical regularly? I was working out alot and then got kind of busy and haven't been making time for it and i've certainly been able to tell a difference in how well I deal with things. Do yourself that favor and make sure your getting some kind of exercise...
Beardown im really expect that the day will pass without a mention from her.....of course I like to think im ok with that and ready for it, but I said the same thing about the 'buyers remorse' I knew she was going to have after our conversation and that kicked my butt pretty good.
