I know I am not in any position to set boundaries (as he is getting ready for the BIG move) regarding OW.

Right now they are "just talking" at work. OW's D is suppose to be final in about a month. I am petrified that my H & OW will start up comm when her H is no longer living with her and there is no longer a possibility for him to accidentally intercept their communication.

My H's R with OW has thus far been an EA. But, I fear that it will eventually escalate to a PA if their comm resumes.

Right now I am just focused in on how I'm going to emotionally handle his moving out. I'm already a mess on a fairly regular basis! BUt, my logical side realizes he NEEDS this time and space and w/o it will not be able to move forward (esp toward saving our M/family).

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.