Thanks a lot Arsene. BTW, previous to my hope comment I said reconciliation could still be on the table so HOPEfully that wasn’t misunderstood. Your post was great, I thought you were 25 for a minute.
Yeah, I do like her style. Your comment is definitely a compliment, to me at least.
I know what you're saying about making friends. I wish I'd thought of that when I was in a better state of mind (i.e. when my life wasn't so messed up) . Right now, it's even harder to meet people than it was before. Sometimes I feel so needy and I think it shows. Not good.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
Been there, believe me, I DO know what you mean. The key is to TRY and get your mind off of it. NOTHING is wrong with meds, please know this. It's not a cure all but it can help.
Oh, one other thing. I made a previous comment about my old self coming out. I was talking about the person I was when W met me.
The kids and I were singing a youtube song together last night. It's by Rod Stewart, the name of the song is Forever Young. He's cool, hair style and all. There's even a slow version that has the words. It brought me lots of smiles. Let me know what you think. It's really good.
Oh, one other thing. I made a previous comment about my old self coming out. I was talking about the person I was when W met me.
Ok. That's the one we want. Take care Rough. I know the song. Good one.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
Denver told me it will get easier each time something like this happens. I believe he’s got an excellent point. Next time W throws me for a loop, I hope I will handle things in a better fashion.
It is why they call it the roller coaster from hell. The sooner that you learn that the coaster will have a steep drop every so often, or may even go backwards and upside down, the less that you will be surprised and terrified by it.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
My friends and I are going to a fun Halloween party tomorrow night, it should be a blast. I have a cool military dress uniform that’s really fun to wear. We are going to a place my W frequents so it would be a bit odd if she shows up.
We are going to a place my W frequents so it would be a bit odd if she shows up.
Rough, buddy, that sentence makes no sense. It wouldn't be odd as she frequents the place and I'd bet you are hoping she does show up.
Not saying that's wrong but just be up front about it. 25 talked about the communication between you and W a few pages back. You do at times, seem to have a P/A way of communication. I used to do that because I was afraid to state my true feelings.
Any way, have fun at the party, just be clear about your motives, at least to yourself.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
Hope you have fun at the party. And if your W shows up, keep your mask on and put the moves on her . Take care my friend!
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
