I am butting in. Sam my H is going through what your wife is. No other person or affair. Just the qoute we most hear. I love you but I am not in love with you. I too struggle with the saying the right things. When he does something nice for me I thank him or tell it meant a lot to me. Whether that is wrong or right I don't know. But it makes me feel good to acknowledge it. His birthday is Friday. Don't know what to do about that one. Maybe someone could with that? I feel that I am damned if I do and damned if I don't.
