Save that vicious text from him and print it out. The next time he starts laying into you about how bad you are or if he makes a fuss about not being able to help name the baby, point to the paper and say "that's why'".
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.