Also, maybe your W's conversation with your D won't be as bad as you're picturing it. After all, it's her daughter, and she loves her, so I doubt she'll say something traumatizing. I think it's good that she explains what is happening to the girl, and that it would be good for you to be there. I would not drink any alcohol prior to the meeting or any time you're taking meds. Good luck. I have you in my prayers.
Yes, I agree with you. I guess in my mind, it's much easier to live in denial if no one knows (I know. I AM in denial). Once she starts telling everyone (her family, our daughter, etc..) it becomes real and perhaps more difficult for her to come back (I know. It IS real). I know it has to come to that at one point but I guess I was hoping we might have a chance to fix things before it did get to that.
I will come home after work. I want to be there for D8 if she needs me.
Thanks Tori.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then