5 months in

[Tessa2012]

I also got some additional insight into his issues with me.

H was trying to "play" with me on the phone via text (his communication style of choice) about being naked and "home" alone.

He also joked about meeting up with him and desecrating the backseat of his car. I told him that it'd be easier to pick me up.

He got excited and said "That's what I'm talking about!" and something about needing risk if it's worth keeping.

Ultimately he asked if he stopped over and said lets go would I go with him. I shocked him and said yes. When he put it in real time (hr from that moment) and getting busy in the parking lot at work or at my desk, I told him no. I explained that that was something I didn't want to share with my co-workers. Also, I didn't want to loose my job by getting busy in the parking lot (cameras). H reminded me of his career choice and said that he knew where the blind spots were and then called me a prude. I told him I wasn't going to defend my position and he said that I didn't have a defense. Luckily, I remainded calm the entire time.

I did reminid him that I had talked about meeting up with him at his place (a warehouse) and he told me no and mentioned cameras as well. (Same general concept) H mentioned it wasn't the same because my place was closer and safer that where he works.

I think I was called a prude a total of 5 times during our texting session. He mentioned that he "always wanted excitement but couldn't pull my head out of my ass."

So, on one hand I've learned more about my H and what he's wanted out of our sex life. But he still has issues with expressing it in a non-obnoxious fashion.

I'm sure there's something else that I want to mention but my mind's a blank.