Thanks for your input Fuanacdc. I'm sorry to hear about what you've needed to go through, although you do sound pretty solid because of your experiences. Hearing there's another somebody in the picture is never a good time, and I think after the initial shock of it wears off, it's all a big question mark.

Am I sure there isn't someone else in the picture? No. My gut isn't saying anything, not that it matters - anything's possible. I guess if there is, I'll hear about it at some point. Hopefully not. He's home for the most part, out of the way pretty much but not out all night or late or anything. He's just not interested in being around me. (aside from a little bit yesterday). It's truly like he doesn't know me, or is completely indifferent all of a sudden. It's creepy!

And thanks for the uplift on the statistics. At the end of the day, if he does leave, I know I'll be ok. I've been through a lot worse, if I take a step back and really view this with no emotion. (I can do this sometimes, not often!)

Overall I'm very thankful to have this board and you all. Sometimes knowing that I'm not going crazy and I'm not alone is what makes me feel a lot better.