I am not the most computer literate person, but I think I put the link to my old thread in here.
I am looking at gaining some insight into something else that I am battling with. My w seems to think that we will spend the childrens' b-days together, and do Christmas morning together among other things. Part of me thinks I should, but I am conflicted. We are not one big happy family anymore, I don't want to say no for the sake of the children. The reality is, if we can't make this work, at some point there will be someone else in each of our lives. Can't imagine they would feel to comfortable Christmas morning with a XW there. I am not looking at this to teach her a lesson, almost more of a reality check, for both us. Either way, it will be hard for me. What is best for the kids?
Me 37/W 32 S 5 D 4 ILYBNILWY 5/12 Sep 8/12 Starting to find myself 11/12 on