b..I did read the article. Very, very interesting with lots of information. It gives me a better idea for sure. I'm not sure which category he fits into yet but as time passes and if he continues down this path, I will recognize the behavior.
I am trying to prepare myself for that Speech and the behavoior that follows. I know I won't get it right and I know that my anger and frustration will get the best of me but I want to do and say the right things. From what I've read I know that what I say and do won't make any difference to him. I know that I will be the blame and that it will be my fault no matter how good our marriage has been.
I have been on several sprees since he has been gone. It's helped me pass the time. I've already chosen the outfit that I will wear and if it doesn't catch his attention then nothing will! I've also made plans to meet some friends of ours for a long weekend at a resort not far from here. I won't tell him until a few days before.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama
I've already chosen the outfit that I will wear and if it doesn't catch his attention then nothing will! I've also made plans to meet some friends of ours for a long weekend at a resort not far from here. I won't tell him until a few days before.
