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He has always been very level headed but as I mentioned he has decided that this is "his time" and I believe he feels his mortality which is very atypical behavior for him. How to state my disapproval and outrage over this where I am at a loss. My tendency to want to direct my anger at him in a way that will piss him off. I feel that keeping the communication going is what I should do and a way to find out where he is mentally. Do I make this about me, my feelings, what it's doing to me. Do I ask him WHY he is doing this, what he hopes to gain etc.? Probably not. LOL

This is overwhelming and I just don't know how to go about it. I know what I want the end result to be but am afraid that I will say or do the wrong thing. Setting the boundaries seems to be the first step. "I will not tolerate you going to visit her again"? Probably not. Since he is still talking to me is it still okay to discuss it? Again, I want to try to temper my anger.