Went to IC this morning. It all went great and he validated that I'm in the right path considering the circumstances. I think he's a good counselor but some of his advice are not in lined with DBing so I had to weed them out and filter what is in line with DBing. He was more on my side of things and at some point I had to explain my Ws position. I thought about explaining to him the WAW syndrome, but I only had an hour in session.
I felt that I am one step ahead as far as his expectations as to how I'm handling myself and my reactions through this sitch. He seemed surprised. That I give props to the folks here in DB board, you guys rock! I'm really glad I found this site.
Couple of notes from Ws behavior, she seemed curious about my IC. She mentioned it last night and this morning she told me "good luck" on my session. She seem nice to to replying to my text about the traffic on my drive to work. I won't read into it I'll take it as it is.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
