How can you make them understand why? I feel like I might as well bang my head on the wall. Everyone, including myself has told him less than 3 percent of affairs make a real relationship. He's been told of her "ways". Not by me. I keep quiet because he seems to think its just jealousy from me... but he's been told. How do you make them see and get the importance. Unknown to him my "date" is Thanksgiving weekend. If we have progressed to nowhere and she is still not being told to go away I will give up and walk away. I was ready to do it before and if he won't let her go then he can't have me. I mean that. I will not be second place or a backup plan in my own marriage...
WS moves out 9/11 OWH DD#1 12/11 FR#1 1/12 DD#2 2/12 WS leaves 4/12 WS tries FR#2 6/12 WS/OW move in 7/12 WS leaves OW 9/12 WS back with other OW 12/12 Said OW demanding we D 5/14/13 WS files divorce 8/28/13
