He is being transparent. He tells me where he is at all times. Who he is with. He has even told me they still talk, which surprised me because he's always lied about it. He knows I check the bill. He knows I have no trust. He is being very good with it all. The one thing he has not done and has not seen as important as I do is the NO CONTACT for life part.
I have already told him that will be a problem. That until he cuts her off totally I will never fully try to reconcile because it will never work and I will not put myself back on that roller coaster.
WS moves out 9/11 OWH DD#1 12/11 FR#1 1/12 DD#2 2/12 WS leaves 4/12 WS tries FR#2 6/12 WS/OW move in 7/12 WS leaves OW 9/12 WS back with other OW 12/12 Said OW demanding we D 5/14/13 WS files divorce 8/28/13