That's so true AS! I recall a few "excuses" my H used to say how we wouldn't work, and some of the things that he is telling me now were the things that he said he didn't mind and even appreciated before!!
I feel sad that he is trying so hard to make me back off, to want to get out, and I felt like he is winning. He is having fun and he doesn't need me. I am not contacting him since I so know that I am not doing myself any good. This whole thing is just going nowhere to me right now. He told me that I made his life great before, now I don't know how to make his life great anymore. I feel like his "fantasy" will be there with him..... He always took care of me, so... without me, I don't know if he would miss me at all. We have no children, nothing really that would bond us right now....
