My H has lost some weight recently, as I think I have mentioned. Now he's at the point where it really is starting to show, and I told him he looked good. He said that he was hoping he'd stop snoring if he lost some weight. It's not like he was fat but he had a decent gut on him.
You guys aren't in the same BR yet are you?
I think it's good that you are being supportive, and complimenting him, but honestly, I seriously doubt this is for your benefit.
Originally Posted By: RegretfulLA
I need to work on trying to trust his changes. I'm still so paranoid that he's going to go through with the D, even though things seem to be going well (better than they were before bomb). I'm not going to do anything differently, but I guess I won't really be able to believe it until he's able to return some of my affection.
I deal with the same thing, but sometimes I don't think trust is the right choice....sometimes I think it's better to just accept you can't control it. With that said, I do think it's important to track those baby steps so you can see what is working and what isn't.
