So I have not communicated/texted with my W since Monday evening when she had her little fit about me taking the reminders of our life together down. She sent me the message that, "I am sorry I got upset - I just didn't expect you to take down any rememberance of us". It about killed me not to say something...But I know it's the right thing to do. I then got the text (yes I'm sure it was because she's upset) that she wanted to meet to discuss our financial agreement. I again did not respond as I'm not sure I want to discuss this right now.
Last night I got the, "Are you ever going to respond to anything I say?" and finanly later in the evening after no response, "I care about you and love you". I'm so confused....Why does MLC have to be at someone elses expense? Is there some kind of karma that says, "You are going through a MLC and you spouse must suffer with you????" Rhetorical question I know!
M-49 W-47 M - 09/2008 T- 09/1994 No Children 4 dogs/2 cats EA 11/2010 Sep 09/2012 (tried in 05/2012 and W came back to work on us) As of now does not want to work on anything but herself...