I even pointed out that he failed to cut her off the last 2 times and that resulted in him getting back into the affair. She is divorced because of this affair and has made it very clear to everyone she wants my husband to be her husband now.

He has told people he wants to try with me. He told her he was coming back to me even. She keeps calling. He said it's not an issue she is not interfering in our effort to reconcile. I said she is the number 1 enemy and no matter what "advice" she is giving him he needs to understand she is NOT his friend and has her OWN interests at heart when she gives advice to him. Advice to make sure we DON'T reconcile and I said he was so stuck on her that he does not see it clearly.

No comment.

LOL...

Do they ever see the light? Sometimes I do think he gets it but then he babbles again and I know it's time to back off...

WS moves out 9/11
OWH DD#1 12/11
FR#1 1/12
DD#2 2/12
WS leaves 4/12
WS tries FR#2 6/12
WS/OW move in 7/12
WS leaves OW 9/12
WS back with other OW 12/12
Said OW demanding we D 5/14/13
WS files divorce 8/28/13