"Furthermore, and I know of many here who lived it, SHE won't have any sense of urgency nor decisions to finally make UNTIL you move forward with the life that WILL happen without her. That is the thing that clicks in them. The only thing.
You can't tell her. You can't fake it.
You have to LIVE it."
^^^^^From AKhope. I had to steel this from AT's thread as a reminder. It's some truthful wisdom.
Yeah, I've been pondering this one for the last few days. I have to face my fears first. What you posted was great mate. I share a lot of the same fears (as I'm sure many of us do). I just don't know where to go from here. This might not be the best time for me to take life changing decisions. I'm kind of f&*ked up right now. But I know I'll need to get there somehow, soon. I feel like I've taken a major step back. What happened to the acceptance I thought I'd found a few weeks(days??) ago? Man, this is messed up. Sorry for rambling on your thread mate.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
