Or not go if he's been drinking. There's a boundary that you can set that definitely protects you and possibly other people on the roads, children, elderly.
People will often tell you "you" have issues when your are making them think about things that make them uncomfortable.
His deciding to set limits on his drinking is a big red flag. With you being the child of alcoholics, I'm sure you know that.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
