Maybe I did a backslide last night....W went out with some friends who are moving out of town...she took daughters...and I called them at 9 to say goodnight..no answer..I should have probably left it at that but I kept calling and there was no answer so at 10 I drove by the house where they stay and they were not there then I call later about 11 and d(11) answers the phone they are on their way home...W wants to talk imediately and she is angry why I would be calling so late...I am angry she has the girls out so late on a school night..when d(11) is failing two classes....so we get in an argument on the phone and she hangs up an then texts me that she is seeing red that I will call d(11) to bitch out her mother..a gross reminder". Maybe I should not have called but it is in my nature to worry when my kids aren't at home at 11..thought something happened...