Lost and confused

[Soul.Searching]

That's typical H! His life revolves around his job it's a pretty low paying job with crazy Ridiculous hours. That was one of our biggest problems. Even if we had plans, if work called he would drop whatever he was doing and go in. His on salary, so no extra money for the extra hours.
He is supposed to call tomorrow night to let me know if he is working or not. I have already told him yes but made sure he realizes this is a one off. Its going to be hard on the kids not seeing him for three weeks. But realistically I think he should be stepping up and telling work he can't do the second job. ( his going to one place for two weeks, coming back and going straight to another) but that would mean he would miss out on a "working holiday, all expenses paid)

His grandfather passed away a couple of years back, a day before he was due to go away for work. He called and organized not to go. The boss was fine with it. He then decided he would go and called his boss back. He drove six hours there, drove six hours back the morning of the funeral, got pissed came home passed out and left at 3 am to drive six hours back!!!


Im trying to get the papers but they seem to have disappeared!

I haven't really answered him about taking the car, just told him that was weird to ask lol. I don't want to push him further away but things can't just be the same as how they were. That's a huge ask IMO he left me!