W's birthday today.. cold towards me this morning.. [censored].. normally on her bday I would have planned some fun things to do but it feels awkward planning those things now.
So do you have any plans? My W's bday was a couple months after BD, I was hung up on the DB tip that says no gifts, it just didn't feel right. In the end we did have a small party for her, gave her a few gifts and some flowers and took her out to eat. I'm glad we did, even if it wasn't DB protocol it still felt like the right thing to do and she did seem to enjoy it.