I guess its not a "bad" sign. He seems quasi aware that there MIGHT be more going on for him than just me being the root of all evil. But he's not convinced of that possibility lol.
He had me look in his email yesterday... really wish he wouldn't do that. I am a snooper, but I had been being GOOD. But you know, if you TELL ME TO GET IN YOUR EMAIL, well I'll GET IN YOUR EMAIL.
The only reference I found to our M was a couple of lines to a friend of his who he had previously told "Jen and I are done" (I know this because of more snooping...) the friend asked for an update and H's response was "our marriage is in flux. Who knows what will happen?"
Last night when I read that it made me mad. This morning it kind of makes me shrug. Because I guess he's right, nobody does know what will happen...
I'm still trying to wrap my head around the idea that he wants to continue acting like everything is status quo. I haven't found another sitch quite like that on DB so far. I know projection is not the way to approach and MLCer, but I can't fathom telling someone you don't love them and don't want a future with them, and don't even really like them, and then wanting to ML.... truly mind boggling.
But enough about him. I'm trying to limit how much time I spend pondering the imponderable H. I have a job interview today! A job will be a HUGE step in GAL, so fingers crossed for that.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
