Have been thinking about me and W pending separation. What is the best way to support her? At the moment I am letting her get on with it and she asks if she needs something. Shld I be more involved in finding her new home, helping finance it, helping her move etc etc. I am watching her run around like a mad woman trying to sort her benefits out, find a place, find furniture etc
How do I show her I care but at the same time leave her to it? After my anger/frustration of yesterday I am worried she is running herself into the ground with this. Shld I even offer her to move out and leave S here whilst she gets herself sorted?
The one thing she does ask for is financial support which I can't give to her. She then goes cold and thinks I am being awkward.
This is the one main issue at the moment that is causing tension. I cannot get her to appreciate our financial sitch and how I cannot afford to financially support her whilst she does this. She thinks I am being cold.
I know I keep coming back to this and I realise S will help us both clear our heads.
