W gave me a list of everything that she wants, now later and down the line. I guess it is a little sad to me. I feel like if at this point she is splitting stuff up in her head and asking for everything, there really is no going back. This is my opportunity though to just get everything out and stop that slow bleed. She offered to come get her things when I was there and as much as I want to see her, I'm not sure if that is a good idea. I think with the volume of things that need to be moved I am going to move them into a storage unit so she can come and get them whenever she has time. My only concern is that by doing that I am missing an opportunity to see her and show her all the things that I have done to better myself.


Me - 32
Wife - 31
No kids
Married - 3
Together - 6
"I need space" - July 2012
Bomb/Presence of OM - August 2012
Separation - September 2012