I have committed myself to not have any contact with H. We haven't talked in two weeks. He came home to pick up his passport. Since then I've emailed him. The last email was Sunday. I was kind of fussing at him about how he is ignoring our Ds. Now I know I shouldn't have done that. So, I will stop. I will remind myself that I need to give him space and time. I have to remember that I still have our house to live in, money to pay the bills, my job and my friends. I am going to go on with my life and hopefully he will take notice. No communication couldn't make things worse. So, here I go on the next step of the horrible journey.
What else should I be doing? I have opened my own checking account. My husband and I have always had a joint account. I can transfer money from the joint to my account. H knows I've done this. He hasn't said a word about it. I'm sure about talking to a lawyer.. Should I do any more than what I'm doing now? Or just stay put and wait?
