I don't think the counselor is fooled by your h's actions either. She has given you some good advice and I would speak to my lawyer about having your son's session mandated in the decree.
Of course, he's going to be nice and act as if nothing happened...he got his way when he cancelled the session. Have you had time to review the mediation paperwork? If the papers are not up to your approval, then don't sign them.
Enjoy your time away w/your children.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
