Thanks Tori... I needed a little feedback. I agree with #1, still seeing what / where I can do and with who. #2. I'm not saying I don't still have anger, I sure do. It's a goal, a lofty one that I'm striving to get to a better place and STAY there. Maybe with anger and understanding. ?? #3. Wasn't a critical statement, then again if that's how it was perceived, that's the more important thing at this time. Heck, look at the way i was doing my best to show W love, just not in her primary LL. I haven't brought it since that text. I did wish the friend "luck" today via W as today she is supposed to break it off. Positive karma / tonglen / better man mentality. I truly do like this friend. Oh, and I put on a couple more pounds. I'm trying...