My God, I do think we're married to the same man (the snoring, the brie and the salami)!
I think you're wise to keep in mind that your H may still be thinking in terms of D but don't let that stop you from doing what you can to improve the R in the meantime. He may change his mind back and forth several times a day for all you know. I guess there is some healthy balance to be found between paranoid and naive.
I know a little fear keeps me on the DB track. I can easily become complacent.
You sound as if you're doing great. Keep going.
Me: 51 H: 52 T: 23 yrs M: 19 yrs S18, D16, S14 (special needs) PA: 2003/2004 Piecing: 2004 on Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012
