Now Separated, Am I doing the right things?

[Soul.Searching]

My H changed his Facebook status the same night he left, talk about shattering! I changed mine probably about three weeks later and he actually wrote "Wow" I think it really affected him. I havent removed any of his pictures of anything we have tagged each other in because to me he was a huge part of my life and nothing will ever change that.
I have finally forgiven both of us for any and all of our past mistakes. I actually found, much to my surprise that it was harder to forgive myself than him.
To tell you the truth I have never even thought about forgiving myself until this happened. Not to this extent anyway.

I couldn't handle seeing H's status updates or comments he made. I thought about de friending him but I really don't want to do that.
I decided to deactivate my account instead and I really think it helped me to detach. Its not perminate and I don't have a time frame but I think I'll know when the time is right to re activate it.

You need to do whatever helps you right now. If that's what helps you heal and detach, than so be it.