i am so sorry to hear this NLW. I agree with SS, what a sh!t he is right now. I don't get it.

I am sorry for your kids as well. Its like one kick in the gut after another...i can't believe that H can't see it. i know that pain...

Reassure your kids that they are IRREPLACEABLE despite what they may feel. They will need a lot of reassurance, love and support from you. encourage them to express themselves in healthy ways....

thinking of you NLW (((( )))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home