All quiet and left with my thoughts. AT’s thread has been really insightful. It’s been very helpful and thought provoking. I agree and I am on the same page in so many ways. My old relationship with W is dead, gone, no more, it’s a thing of the past in so many ways. When it’s time for my next relationship, it will be healthy, happy and better. It may be with or without my W, I dont know. Which leads me to my next point.
To some, a fb status might seem trivial but sometimes it can be very telling. I’ve kept a lot of pictures of W and I up. I’ve also kept my status at married. I decided to remove my marriage status and change it to blank, just nothing. I also removed almost all the pictures of W. I didn’t do this out of spite or anger. I didn’t do this to prove a point or to get attention. I didn’t do this so single women would think I am available. I did this because my old relationship with W is gone. W might or might not give a sh!t. Sure, it will most likely bug W but I won’t spend my entire life trying to please her or keep the peace. To sum it up, I view it as another piece of my letting go process. I know it sounds a bit dramatic but it’s part of a new chapter in my life.
