Thanks for the reply, It helps to hear feedback from people who understand. I have applied the last resort technique from the book since she has moved out. I have not started any contact with her in the past 3 weeks (she has been gone for a total of 6 weeks now)Im currently getting a text message about every 5 to 6 days regarding bills or packing up belongings. I have started to eat more but some days are really tough. I am just so hurt and confused.