About his behavior? I'm beginning to think he's going through some kind of MLC. Or ID crisis, I don't know what else to call it, I don't know this person. I also think that this is his 'go to' behavior when he's desperate to be heard. He doesn't know how to say up front "you hurt me." Usually he says that later when we've made up. But this is the longest he's done this. Usually it goes for 1-4 days. It's been about a week. I also feel disappointed that he chose to remove the ring. I don't know, maybe because I feel like if people know he's not wearing it, then it's a short jump to telling them he's leaving. And then it's just second nature. It makes me think he's thrown in the towel. He's pretty private, so it just confuses me to see that.
I also feel responsible for his feeling this way (not necessarily his behavior though). I think that this happened in large part because I have a bad attitude when I'm angry. I don't let go of things when he asks me to in an argument. And I can be really moody which isn't cool to do to anyone. I really do see my behavior pretty clearly and I don't like it at all. On our last argument I was really bitchy and I regret making that my MO - it's not healthy.
