Heather, I'm glad you're feeling a little better. I haven't heard of that book, but I think I'm going to look into it. No matter what, you'd wish that you did things differently earlier. Just be thankful you started when you did.

You know that you had a good M. Your H is trying to convince himself he wasn't happy so that his present choices will make sense to him.

Take care of yourself and try not to think about H too much. I need to take that advice myself, so I know how hard that is, but I'm sure you can do it.

M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13