Am I in the right Forum?

[MrBond]

Then this is what you should do IMHO.

Go on your own journey that doesn't include him. Continue to make yourself look and feel good especially when he's around and build yourself up mentally, physically and spiritually.

Every now and then, ask for his "help", then thank him for it and compliment him on it. Then go on your way. Strong and definitive that's what you need to do.