I think I see the picnic!

[scaredsilly]

good luck, vero. it's not easy but you're doing it. its a day-by-day thing.

i can see that you're getting stronger with your resolve to detach from him while he's with OW.

i'm glad, though, that he wants to be a good parent. there are some crappy one on here and it's sad to see the kids hurting.

i think boundaries are best expressed when we're not angry and in a more matter-of-fact way, as in, "this is what i need and i have to have it to function in a healthy way."

it's really not a demand, more of a disclosure of a part of yourself. hope that makes sense.