FY, Being new to this and having never been in this situation I don't know about kicking out a co-owner but it would be worth a try. I have to get my head around that but it would certainly grab his attention, wouldn't it?

The boundry part is what I can't figure out. How to DB and lay down the boundries. Wouldn't that give him even more reason to run to her? I was hoping that he'd come home and tell me that he's been a fool and that apologize. Wishful thinking, yes.

Are you still married? Is your W still around?

Me:57H:62
M:34T:35
2S,2D (grown nlah)
BD:09/2012 visits M ow
EA/PA?:10/2012
H moves out 06/2013

"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama