So I need to detach and go dark. I have a question that when you try and go dark/dim with no contact/texting, do you respond to texts if your W has done something that you would normally thank them for? Such as taking care of the animals, cleaning up around the house, etc? I've been reading and I do not see anywhere this addressed. I don't want to be rude, but I don't want to appear weak by responding to texts/calls.
M-49 W-47 M - 09/2008 T- 09/1994 No Children 4 dogs/2 cats EA 11/2010 Sep 09/2012 (tried in 05/2012 and W came back to work on us) As of now does not want to work on anything but herself...
