Thank you for the kind words. Take it from me, saying anything about the R just sets you up for heartbreak. I know you are in a state of heartbreak now, so you feel, "what the heck?" Trust me, it just pushes him or her away further. Detaching from speaking to H will be the toughest and best decision you can make.
You are welcome Grateful. Thank you for telling me this, it definitely helps! I do feel like wth why can't we even face the problems from time to time. And right now, it's him not speaking to me, but I guess it helps. So I'm not contacting him at all. This is so tough!! Thanks for your input, I feel less bad about my feelings.
