Lost and confused

[Soul.Searching]

So I finally got my car back today! I messaged H to tell him because he had asked me to tell him when I got it back.
There's an important piece of paper that I need. I thought H still had it but apparently not. He asked me if I had checked a certain place and I said " Yes, I went through there a week ago, that's where all the papers came from that I gave back to you" He said "oh" and sounded taken back and kind of upset. WTF?

He also started telling me what I should/ should not be doing regarding a certain situation. Then he said well I can't tell you want to do but that's what I think.

I also noticed how unrealistic some of the things he says are and have been for as long as I can remember. He was saying how he could save X amount of dollars by X amount of time. I didn't reply but realistically going by his wage, he could almost do that if he didn't spend ANY of it for that whole time and would still be a little short. It just goes to show he really has no idea!!

There was also something quite disturbing. I have dogs that I have had since they were puppies. Two are going to have to be put down soon and he called and said he had a friend who could shoot them for me, to save money!!! Was saying how one single bullet to the head is humane. Obviously I declined but it kinda hurts that he can think like that. Is it just me or is that just horrible?