Lost and confused

[Soul.Searching]

Thanks Anotherstander. Certainly a lot to think about.

My IC actually wanted me to send it. I was telling her about D9 saying to me that even though he has been taking them to heaps of places, that he hasent been spending time with them. He has been playing on his phone the whole time.
She seemed to think this definitely meant he was seeing someone else. Told me how evil iPhones are because they are a great tool to help people have A and meet new people. Portable dating sites basically.


I'm definitely trying to give him space and time but he is making it hard. He actually had a go at me a couple of weeks ago because I had not been getting the kids to call him. WTF! I told him that I have told the kids more than once that they can ask me whenever they want to call him. I also told him he is more than welcome to call me, anytime he wants to talk to them. Apparently he thinks that's not good enough. I should be getting them to call him every night so he can say goodnight to them. WTF?