Yep, he went. He's acting like a child and does need consequences. I know that I need to do something but the fear of having him walk away is devastating. You're right in every way. I have been watching the finances very closely. If I see excessive spending I will definitely take action! Not taking his calls will be easy and after today's conversation with him I am very seriously considering it. As to putting his things on the porch, I don't think I can do that at least not at this point. Maybe by the end of the week I'll feel differently!
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama