In case you're wondering, W told me at dinner that the friend may stay the night, cry, and drink some wine. W wanted to give me the heads up. I did make the comment, according to W, it was a "abide" one. I think it was said more jokingly, then again, if you don't like the ugly truth maybe it all sounds negative. So clarified / apologized as that was not the intent of my message. W went on to say she shouldn't have said anything, b/c now I'll judge the friend. I told W that I like the friend and that I've stopped judging people (work in progress). W responded you "judged me". I said yes in the beginning but not anymore. Now if she heard anything I had said during our recent R talk, she would see I've been sticking with that new POV. I sent a text to W to not worry, that secret as well as many more will go to the grave with me and to enjoy zumba. I took the boys to a scout meeting. AP now I'm going to leave it alone.
I will hope W follows her friend in the sense that she breaking off their R
