"Furthermore, and I know of many here who lived it, SHE won't have any sense of urgency nor decisions to finally make UNTIL you move forward with the life that WILL happen without her. That is the thing that clicks in them. The only thing.
You can't tell her. You can't fake it.
You have to LIVE it."
^^^^^From AKhope. I had to steel this from AT's thread as a reminder. It's some truthful wisdom.
